Starting this month I am going to be a contributing writer on Oklahoma City Moms Blog. It’s a collaborative mom blogging site that I’ve been following on social media. It’s apart of City Moms Blog Network. So even if you aren’t from or living in my neck of the woods there’s a good chance there is a Moms Blog near your city. I am excited, and maybe a tad nervous, to be a part of it.
I needed to provide a bio pic for their site. The profile picture I have been using on my blog and social media sites is a grainy selfie taken in a bathroom at least a year ago on a cell phone that was outdated even at the time. The only reason I had that picture is because my job made it mandatory to have our pictures on our email accounts.
I have been following Kristina James at Shine a Light Photography on social media. She takes pictures for my sister’s family, and I always think they look magazine ready. She’s makes capturing perfect images, even of rascally kids, look effortless. I mean, come on. Look at these.
So I sent Kristina a message asking if she could help me get a picture, and get it quick. She was on board. Now here is where it got tricky. She asked about my style and ideas and what I was thinking. Let me tell you, I was zero help to this woman. All I gave her to go on was that I didn’t want it to be too posed. I wanted it to be a fun picture, and I wanted to feel pretty. I think I may have sent 1 single example of something that I may have liked. That was it.
Then, when we taking the pictures I was a stick in the mud. I didn’t bring a lot to the table. I was promising her I was fun while not being fun at all even though she is super fun. It would have been nicer of me if I had asked her to read my mind. Instead I was tasking her with capturing a perfect picture of me to convey to a bunch of people I don’t know that this is what I look like . This is what my personality is like, and everyone should read my stuff. Mind you she doesn’t know me. She knows my sister. It was a tall and unfair order.
After we were finished I got to thinking about what my hang up with this picture was. I realized I was uncomfortable with it being about me. It wasn’t a family picture or a picture of my kids. It was me. To be perfectly honest I think I’ve been avoiding pictures of myself because while I think and feel like my 26 year old self, when I see a picture I am reminded that I look like my tired 30 something self that has struggled to take off the baby weight. Oh yeah and my “baby” is turning 2 this month.
I didn’t have too much time to think about it though because Kristina got these back to me the same evening we took them, and I couldn’t be happier. It’s interesting how my favorite ones turned out to be the “not fun” ones. Maybe because I wasn’t trying? I want to thank Kristina for giving me what I asked for but also several I didn’t even know I wanted. For everyone else, I encourage you to check out her work and follow her on social media at Shine a Light Photography . You won’t be sorry.
These pics are beautiful.
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Thanks Nicky!
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Oh my God. These photos are wonderful. You are so full of lovely poise, a light joy and caring. I also love your post and can relate in my own way.
This whole post touched me. Thank you so much. You are fantastic, and blessings on your blogging!! Yeah. 💜
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Oh Debbie you are too kind, and I think you are fantastic. Thanks for reading it. I was a bit nervous to post it.
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It is beautiful!!!
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Great job!
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Thank you mam 🙂
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She had a beautiful subject matter! Great job both of you!!!
Luv ya, babe
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Is that a new hair color? Maybe the lighting is just different in your old picture, but it seems lighter now.
Either way, you look great! The pictures are beautiful.
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Thanks Erin. No but you are right. My hair did look darker in the other picture. Maybe because it was bad light inside?
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Probably so. My hair looks a lot darker in inside photos too. But I was thinking you were brunette and now you can see your pretty red hair!
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You look lovely in all of those pictures. But YOU are straight up adorable in the last one. Fantastic pics!
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Thank you! One of my really good friends said that one was totally me.
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Hey girl. You look simply amazing. Love reading your blogs. Keep them coming. ~hugs~
Trish
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Oh Trish it is so good to hear from you! How are you?!? Thanks for reading and for the compliment 🙂
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These pictures look great! Thanks for the photographer recommendation—I’ll have to check her out, I’m scoping out photogs for my engagement/wedding pics!
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Thanks lady 🙂 yes you should totally check her out. I love her engagement pics.
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Great Pics! Love reading your blog. It takes me home. Being an Okie now in AZ.
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Thanks Pamela 🙂 what do you think the biggest differences are between OK and AZ?
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The weather. We have Dust Storms in June-September This is our Monsoon season. A little bit of rain is big news here. Also an inch can shut down the freeway. No where for it to go. But because of no perils our property insurance is so much less. There are more people in Phoenix than the entire state of Oklahoma. Which makes for more of everything. Restaurants, Doctors, shopping, entertainment. But the people are very nice- Mainly because most everyone is not from here. We all moved here. I love it. Go to my blog and read my about page.
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Sounds lovely! I always say I want to live in a place that looks like I am on vacation everyday.
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Well come on out! It’s only a 2 hour flight from OKC.
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Beautiful pictures
I love this post
You can also check out my blog 😃
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Thank you, and I sure will!
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You’re welcome and thank you too😁
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Nice pictures. I like the first and the fifth ones the best. Good luck with your future endeavors. 🙂
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Thanks Karen!
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Awesome! I love them!
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Thanks sis!
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These are great. You look beautiful. I could relate to this a lot and I don’t know that I’ve ever had pictures of just me – I’m usually the photographer in the family, and if we get portraits done, it’s never me alone. I’d be the same way explaining things too – and I’m awful at posing. I don’t even know how to smile right! Great photographers are a god send. Keep this one. And keep pushing yourself to go back. If they’re this good on your first try, imagine what moreyou can do!
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Thanks Jay! Yessss it was so awkward. I wanted the smiles to look genuine, but they weren’t. So I stared like a scared deer staring at the camera.
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Love the pics Lacey– they look so happy!! and congratulations on your new writing project!! Awesome!
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Thank you 🙂
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Love your new pics! So radiant! 🙂
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Thanks so much 🙂
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Hi . Beautiful pictures . Nice imagery . Thanks for sharing such wonderful post
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Aw thanks Fatma!!!
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